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Live Life to Learn
Step into my world of stories, reflections, and life lessons. Here, I share my thoughts and experiences: raw, honest, real, and respectful.
Explore, connect, and maybe even discover a piece of yourself in my words.


Why You Should Never Beg Someone to Stay
Sometimes love ends not because we stop caring, but because holding on means losing ourselves. Begging someone to stay isn’t love, it’s forgetting your worth.
Lyda Ngin
3 min read


When Being Seen Feels Like Too Much
A few unexpected words caught me off guard. Not because they hurt, but because they saw something I’ve kept hidden. In meditation, the feeling lingered, a quiet shift, a strange tremor. Maybe it was recognition.
Lyda Ngin
2 min read


When Sensitivity Becomes a Weight You Didn't Ask to Carry
I admire sensitivity, but not when it becomes a quiet demand for others to carry it. This is about learning to protect your energy without guilt, and why emotional intelligence includes respecting someone else's limits too.
Lyda Ngin
2 min read


Define Ordinary Life
What does it really mean to live an "ordinary" life? In a world shaped by inequality, resilience, and choice, maybe there’s no such thing. This reflection challenges the idea of what’s considered typical, and invites you to honor your own story.
Lyda Ngin
2 min read


Redefining Progress on My Own Terms
What happens when you stop chasing someone else's version of success and start asking your life what it truly needs? This reflection explores how I redefined progress on my own terms—rooted in intention, self-respect, and love.
Lyda Ngin
3 min read


A War Lover(s)
The atrocity. The genocide. The killing. The shooting. The torture. The nonstop bombing.
So many lives—innocent lives. Children, women, men
Lyda Ngin
2 min read


No Pain, No Gain.
a real crisis is unfolding before us—one that threatens every single person, regardless of status or politics.
Lyda Ngin
2 min read
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